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RIVER HOUSE REVEAL: My Brother’s Primary Bedroom – How We Added Color While Keeping The Calm

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Y’all, I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again – I love designing a bedroom. Unlike a family room that has to act as a playroom, seating area, TV room with storage, etc, this room needs a singular function – sleep – (ahem), welcomes symmetry (less decisions!), and by nature of the space you don’t have a ton of options. This room was always meant to be calm, simple, white, and wood with huge windows (per the rest of the main spaces in the house) which lends itself easy to be designed. But the easy pitfall with more neutral rooms is that they can look boring (especially on the internet these days). So I needed to still honor the original intent (warm minimalism, focus on the views) while exerting some style and punch (new by-line?). And I LOVE how it turned out. But before you see it all decked out, let’s talk through the bones:

The Bones – Flooring, Ceiling, Paint, Windows And Lighting

The house was designed and laid out by Anne Usher, their architect. I love how she played with volume, light, the views, and didn’t just create a box. The triangular jut outs from the window seat are such a pretty architectural feature that you see immediately when you walk in. The wood flooring is Shell by Stuga, and the ceiling is also from Stuga, called Drift. If you are nervous about putting wood flooring on your walls or ceiling stay tuned for a blog post soon – we think if you do it right it looks AWESOME. The walls are the most perfect warm, but not too yellow white called Alabaster by Sherwin-Williams. It’s my new go-to white. Boy am I jealous that I had to learn my hard “not every white is equal” lesson in our house, but glad I did so that we chose the most perfect white here. The windows are by Marvin – white oak on the inside, black aluminum clad on the outside. The spotlights are from Rejuvenation and are so much prettier than recessed lighting (but less light, FYI so make sure you have other light sources). We also put in this fan which we still need to add an extender on (which came this week lol), so they’ll have that light source as well. It was a really simple space, as they all are when they are empty, and it was ready for some punch and style.

Step on in…

The Bed Wall

Headboard | Bedframe | Rug | Nightstands | Lamp Base (vinage) | Pleated Shades | Sconces | Painting

This room wasn’t as much of a challenge as other bedrooms I’ve done (layout wise), but the bed wall was more narrow and the room itself was more long, less square especially for a wider king bed. So when I started thinking about how to anchor this room, I wanted a bed/headboard that would be grounding enough to handle these high ceilings, to hold the wall with enough impact, add some color (but not in a super bold way), and frankly not look dinky and short but not be so big that you couldn’t fit proper nightstands. It was tight, TBH. So when I found this headboard from Article – wide, with channel tufting and the most beautiful green I designed the room around it. It could anchor the wall in a powerful way, and the right nightstands could tuck right inside.

The headboard (and bed) from Article allowed us to casually float these rounded nightstands (which have storage – opens like a cabinet) and look good from all sides – which is important because if they are floating in front of the nightstand you’ll see the back as you walk in. This worked PERFECTLY and I love how the ribbing on the nightstands mimics the channel tufting on the bed (and the pleating on the lamps). We paired the headboard (that attaches to the wall with a big cleat) with the light oak platform bed from Article which is a move that I love to do – you don’t need a fully upholstered bed if the base contrasts enough and is pretty like this one. In fact, I’d argue that if you are on a budget get this headboard then use a basic base with a bed skirt – the headboard packs so much punch for the price. I love how the sconces flank the painting and take up more of the visual space above the bed, softening the shift between the horizontal headboard and vertical painting (plus they provide nice reading light).

If you want a video tour the space HERE YA GO (just wait for the ad to play)

The Most Beautiful Painting

This painting by local Portland artist Charlie Salas Humera and is incredible. I was tipped off to his work last year (shout out to Purl!) and have been stalking him to see what I can buy for my house or convince my bro to buy. His use of color is incredible. When this came up on his stories I begged my brother and SIL to go see it in person – I knew I loved it, but it was an investment as good art should be and I needed them to love it, too. They did and bought it (support local good artist if you have the budget!) and my goodness does it make this room, color-wise, totally sing.

The Lamps And Sconces

I bought these vintage lamps when Charlie was a baby off Etsy, one of my first vintage splurges ever (I think they were $300 each). They are from Sweden and I’ve loved them for so long, and had no intention of using them here. We actually ordered these from West Elm that are so similar but they didn’t arrive in time, so I pulled these lamps from storage, ordered the pleated lampshades which did arrive in time. And while I wouldn’t put the two blues typically together, both colors are in the painting so collectively I think it looks really curated and intentional. The second I placed the lamps Gretchen, Emily M. and I all gasped. It took the room next level. And while I wouldn’t sell these lamps to just anybody (I have a strange sentimental attachment to them as I remember the exact time, place and mood I was in when I ordered them and it was a very, very special time in our lives) having them at my brother’s house felt emotionally doable for me, LOL. I can still visit them! Creepy!

The Rug – The Remy Rug In Green

The rug is our new Remy rug, in green from our new Rugs USA collection that just launched last week and we LOVE this rug. It’s so soft, has texture variation, and a really beautiful rich color that is really forgiving. It’s wool, durable, and the graphic staggered rectangles are totally transitional – they can live in both modern/contemporary houses like this but is so simple that it can easily be in a more traditional home as well.

The View

This room has the most incredible views of the river and trees (which is why Anne faced the bed that way). The huge wood windows anchor the opposite wall and create the focal point of the room. We hired Decorview for motorized shades (hard-wired, during the construction process) and we chose a color that integrated well with the wood and is just warm and soft.

The shades are room darkening (“blackout” but there is always a tiny light leak in the center) and you can even do top down/bottom up, meaning if you want privacy up to your chest you can control them to go from the bottom up to any point, allowing light to come in from the top.

The Window Seat

There are a hilarious amount of window seats in this house, all full of storage and done in a rift-sawn white oak. This one, if head by the sconce has the most beautiful views of the river and is where my bro claims he will be napping. We made them deep enough (30″) to be ample for napping (and in the kids’ rooms they can have friends sleep on them for sleepovers). I found the most incredible fabric at our local upholsterer (shout out to Alexander Matthews in Tigard). The fabric is from Pollack and is called Boxing Day.

I love how the pattern (that is a soft, textured cut velvet) integrates so easily with the wood and yet still adds some pattern and punch. We could have done a solid over here but with the solid rug and headboard I really wanted to bring in a pattern somewhere and this is perfect.

Opposite the bed, we have the most cozy and big chair and ottoman, the Abisko from Article. This corner needed a big guy (and yes, we thought about putting it facing the view, but ultimately they wanted it to face the TV which worked better for me, too) and the scale of this chair and its low profile is perfect. It also comes in a few other awesome colors.

The chair is firm and so comfortable (not a sinking-in chair, but very ergonomic and easy to snuggle in (with a child) with a really generous ottoman.

The side table is so graphic and cool (and functional and heavy). The lamp has a great tripod base and mixed finishes – both wood, black, and of course a fabric shade. The painting I bought at Urbanite by an artist unknown (if you know let me know!). Vase and pillow from Anthropologie, marble dish from Target, and throw from Article.

The bedding is a mix of a bunch of brands we shopped from. Upon my advisement, Katie bought the sheets/pillowcases and duvet in ‘bone’ from Parachute which is a really warm neutral (their heathered percale is so buttery and my current favorite). For styling, we added the Garnet Hill green linen duvet, a Parachute blue quilt, a linen throw from Garnet Hill, velvet pillows from West Elm, and custom bolsters (that were originally made for their daughter’s window seat but look sooo good here).

The whole bed looked so layered and cozy (and while I wanted a bench at the end of the bed, walking around another piece of furniture to get to the bathroom made less sense.

As you can see up there, the bathroom is on the left with a pocket door (it’s so pretty, I can’t WAIT to show you – hopefully soon). We installed a Frame TV on an arm so they can watch TV in bed (this was a whole thing but a pretty good solution). I want to now go back and shoot a reel coming out and showing how it works. They had to put a huge cavity in the wall to house the arm, FYI.

The whole room turned out so bright and cohesive, but simple and warm. I love it so much. No unnecessary clutter or opportunity for clutter. They are lucky enough to have a walk-in closet (behind the headboard wall, coming soon) storage drawers in the bench, and an additional reach-in closet so this room didn’t need a dresser and hopefully won’t have a lot of clothes mess. It’s ready for a cozy Saturday morning and simple relaxation.

A huge thanks to Article who has been a partner of mine for years because I love and trust their quality and design. If you know me IRL you’ll hear me recommend them to anyone who wants high quality, without spending a ton and most things can come within weeks. I have found all of their upholstered pieces to be very comfortable and they have even added a ton more fabrics to choose from should you want custom colors on their sofas and chairs. I really appreciate how they are doing things in a very simple and thoughtful way, expanding their lines slowly, making sure that everything meets their standards and their customer service is excellent.

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This Could Be Epic: Befores & Inspirations for the Team EHD Hair Transformations

I’m not risky with my hair and may never be. I like to try out a new duvet cover, or even a new living room rug and sofa and do so with little to zero anxiety, but “trying out” a new look on my head is not something I’m comfortable doing…that is, until today. I’m making a change, though admittedly not a huge one (keep reading) but the same cannot be said about some of the EHD team (because why not include the team on hair risks?). Some of them said, and I quote, that they “didn’t want to be able to recognize themselves in the mirror.” It’s happening TODAY (head to my Instagram stories to follow along), but I thought it’d be fun to walk through some of the styles we were all debating for ourselves before doing the big reveal next week. Oh, sorry, first I need to torture you with my hair biography, written by me (though it’s so boring that it might as well have been written by my hair itself): I’ve been long, natural blonde and wavy since birth. The biggest change I ever did, hair-wise was chop, bleach and get bangs a year ago and it was fun, it was, but had I known how much damage it was going to do, I may have reconsidered it. A lot of you warned me that it would be hard to recover from bleaching fine blonde hair, but I did it anyway and no regrets here, but no, my hair has not recovered. To be fair, though, my hair was in bad shape before I bleached it. I look at old photos and long for my full, middle-of-the-back head of hair. But in all fairness, my hair was already pretty fried when I processed it further last year, so it wasn’t really “my” hair. A secret fun fact about me is that I had AMAZING post-baby hair. My hair thrives while I was breastfeeding and all the photos of me with good long healthy hair was during that first year after having a baby. But if I can’t be a wetnurse then I need to find my way back to healthier hair. See? That’s good hair, but that wasn’t my reality when I chopped it. It was in a much sadder place and it needed a change. So I went to this: So here is the boring hair story: After the EXTREMELY LOVELY Kristen Ess gave me my new lewk last October, I knew that she couldn’t take me on as a consistent client because she is super busy with her product line and partnerships. Justin Anderson’s team at DP Hue reached out and I started going to him. I’m not just saying this; as someone who generally doesn’t love the ego and self-consumption of Los Angeles, this man gave me hope that you can be raised here and still be a good, grounded person. Sure, he is GREAT with hair color and his product (especially the apple cider vinegar wash) has been GREAT for my scalp, but the reason that I drove 45 minutes is because I love being around him (fun fact: he is a former Mormon and those of us former Mormons connect pretty quickly). But the nearly hourlong commute was becoming a problem with my schedule, plus in LA, many colorists (Justin included) don’t cut your hair, so I was having to book an additional cut or, more on par with my busy attitude, just not getting my hair cut for months (thus looking unhealthy). He was busy so scheduling was hard and I just longed for the days of home salons (the ease, chill vibe and personal care of a neighbor just doing your hair). So when I saw my friend Anne Sage post about The Harbor salon in Silver Lake, I thought I should try it out. I didn’t want to leave Justin, but my schedule was calling out for someone more local, who could also cut and give blow outs. I could tell from Anne’s Instagram that the design of the space was so cool, and I figured someone with a sense of design had to be good at hair, too, right (because of course, that’s how it works). But frankly, the most important factor to my lifestyle was location and convenience—it’s a pleasant 10 minutes away, with ample parking and a super mellow and lovely Silver Lake vibe. I wouldn’t have to fight traffic to go there and once there it just feels nice and friendly. OH MY GOD SHOULD I JUST STOP TORTURING US NOW AND WRITE A TO-BE-UNPUBLISHED BOOK ABOUT MY HAIR WOES? This is so boring. But I have to tell you everything in order for you to properly understand why I’m about to do what I’m about to do. Okay, we’re getting to the fun stuff, I promise… I went to meet with Shanda Wallace and fell in love with her and the salon. One of the best parts is that she has no ego and wants you to be happy, so I even came back after my first color session and she tweaked my color with glaze. Turns out that using the word “icy” means super cool (temperature-wise) which doesn’t look good on me despite how trendy it is. I loved her eagerness to help me get the hair I want and leave super happy and these days, in LA at least, good customer service is jarringly refreshing. But now it’s time for round two (and for the team to also shake things up), and I’m debating some stuff. Shoulder-length blonde hair is not my jam. It looks boring and too “mom” on me; it’s neither a sexy short bob or a healthy blunt medium length cut. Two months ago, when I was sitting in her chair, we started talking about what we COULD do (which is where we are today), and we came down to two options: either go short-short (not pixie, but sexy bob) or get extensions. Here are the pros and cons: SHORTER: Short hair is just cooler than long hair. It’s edgier and more modern. I have a theory that hair extensions and the Real Housewives have made long hair less cool because everyone can have them and what used to indicate youth (long hair) now can just look cheesy. Sure, my husband and most men I know prefer it, but it’s not as cool as a short bob (with bangs??). Case and point: hairstyles 2018 female HOWEVER, because of the damage I’ve done, my hair is pretty fuzzy and frizzy and in order to tame it, I have to heat style it EVERY SINGLE DAY which is going to further the damage/breakage. If I had my old hair it would be great, but it needs to be healthier in order to be short and look good. EXTENSIONS: Obviously, the instant fix is to put in extensions until my hair grows out (and yes I’m taking supplements and using Olaplex). If you get good ones (mine are from Ahn Co Tran) it doesn’t do any damage. In a way, it lengthens your actual hair by pulling on it and kinda protects it, too (or so I’m told but I’m not convinced). We put them in and played with the length. The problem with hair extensions is that they are new and fresh and, for me, are a contrast with my fuzzy, frizzy hair, so styling it has been hard but overall I’m happier than when I had shoulder-length hair. Are they kinda annoying? Yes. These are taped in and you can totally brush and wash your hair, but they are still fake hair taped to your real hair. Last week, I had to go to Minneapolis on a shoot and I didn’t have time to get them taken out, moved up, colored and cut (like 5 hours of time) so Shanda just took them out. This is my hair as of last week: hairstyles 2018 female Pardon the mug shot, this was literally taken at 6 am in Minneapolis by my hair and makeup person, BEFORE she started (obviously). I’m in my pajamas. Current Hair Situation: Boring length, bad texture, kinda fried. hairstyles 2018 female Biggest Hair Concerns/Notes for the Stylist: I want to “drop my root” which means to go darker un your under layers (like a low-light), which helps keep it healthier since you don’t have to dye it as often. Maybe I should go darker underneath in the back than I ever have before? The goal is to have a more blended extension look: shorter and more layers because my hair is so wavy. I want highlights around my face, but just to have more depth and texture. Below is the color that I’m wanting. More natural, but with a lot of depth and contrast (but not crazy contrast). hairstyles 2018 female Style Option #1 (and only): Deeper Roots, Blonder Ends, and Extensions. As far as the length, I don’t want to go crazy long and we’ll likely cut. I love the extensions more for fullness and looking healthier than for length. Do I sound desperate to look better and willing to do anything? Yes. We’ll see how it goes!! I’m going to need to spend the next year really taking care of my hair (vitamins, masks and supplements) to get it back to healthy. ENOUGH OF ME. Four of my team members are up for a challenge. Not everyone wanted to try something new or to leave their stylists, so we have Sara, Ryann, Julie and Velinda all up for it. Let’s see what they have in mind… hairstyles 2018 female Up first is Sara, EHD’s one-person photography department. Current Hair Situation: My hair is a medium brown and slightly wavy. It’ll dry straighter if I brush it when it’s still wet (with a little bit of OGX Coconut Miracle Oil), or curlier if I leave it to dry untouched (with a little bit of Kristin Ess’ Leave-In Conditioner). It’s shoulder length right now, and totally virgin. I spend about 5-15 minutes styling in the mornings, depending on whether I’m just walking out the door, need to wash it, or want to curl it for a more “done” look. This morning, I tried to do “beach waves” with a straightener and realized that 1.) I don’t know how and 2.) Pretending I did while rushing to get ready for work was not the time to learn that I didn’t. It’s very hard to get a big straightener crimp out of hair. Biggest Hair Concerns/Notes for the Stylist: My hair is pretty soft and thin, so anything I can do to make it seem fuller would be great. My face is also very round and some cuts I’ve had in the past have accentuated that in a very helmet-like way, so that would be great to avoid. I’m open to ideas from the stylist and very excited for a change. But I am shying away from a pixie or bangs. Cutting bangs the first time was great, cutting them the second time a few years later was a mistake, cutting them the third time (two years ago) was somewhere in the middle—some days they looked great, other days were a struggle. I’ve dyed my hair black, I’ve dyed it eggplant, I’ve bleached it all and dyed it lavender. I’ve had it as long as my waist, and cut it into a pixie twice. I’ve put it through a lot, but it keeps growing back… hairstyles 2018 female Sara’s Style Considerations hairstyles 2018 female Style Option #1: LIGHT, Short, Textured. I’ve never gone LIGHT in my life. I did self-bleach my hair once in college, but I promptly dyed it cotton candy purple so I didn’t get to see my bleached hair in the daylight. I’m very excited by the idea of light hair, but I also have some concerns. My skin has a lot of red tone to it, so will light hair make my skin look even pinker? Is there a way to go light while still letting my natural roots grow in so I don’t have to maintain the color religiously? And would a warmer honey tone or a cooler ash tone work better? If I’m being honest, I really just want to be able to use Kristin Ess’ Rose Gold Temporary Tint like all the other blondes in the world. There’s also a little hope that some bleach will give my thin, soft hair a little texture, even at the expense of its softness (though I do already use the Olaplex hair products, which bleached blondes swear by). hairstyles 2018 female Style Option #2: A Serious Ombre. Are these still cool? Is this too 2015? I see this as being a way to try something dramatic, but also letting my roots creep in naturally which could be a more affordable way to maintain the color. I could see this working with a short textured cut like the cuts in option #1, or keeping my hair its current length but giving it some more texture with layers. hairstyles 2018 female Style Option #3: Warm Copper/Pumpkin Spice Hair. COULD I PULL THIS OFF?! I don’t know. I’ve never tried anything in the realm of reds. Will this make my skin too pink? It’s a very different look, and I think it does fall in the category of “dramatic.” Lucy Hale is my hair icon. I love everything she does with her hair. hairstyles 2018 female Julie, an EHD junior designer / project manager, is ready to commit to a new color and cut. Current Hair Situation: I’ve been stuck in a hair rut for the past 10+ years. Every time I see my stylist, he’s already mixing my color as I walk in, “highlights and a trim again?” Yup, I’ll take one very safe hairstyle, please. When Emily told us about this potential partnership and the opportunity for a free cut and color, I was suddenly feeling very adventurous (well at least for my standards). My natural hair color is light brown with some warm tones. It is very fine, wavy and is prone to breakage. I am one of those people that have always wanted really long hair but it never seems to want to grow longer than mid-chest so the frustration is high and I am ready to chop it off somewhere between my shoulders and chin to start fresh. In the mornings, I’ll either let it dry naturally as you can see in these photos or just take a flat brush and blow dry it which takes about 10-15 mins. I am pretty low maintenance when it comes to my hair, add a little Moroccan oil and I’m set. Biggest Hair Concerns/Notes for the Stylist: I either want the stylist to make me a true blonde or brunette but since my skin tone is very fair, I think a dark brown would look nearly black on me. I have made that mistake before and by mistake, I mean that I dyed my hair (myself) dark brown all throughout high school and looking back, it is cringeworthy how dark it was. My hair is also pretty thin so although I love the look of a blunt cut, I think it needs some texture to give it life. hairstyles 2018 female Julie’s Style Considerations hairstyles 2018 female Style Option #1: Short and Blonde. I’ve always been hesitant to go fully blonde because of the maintenance it requires (I get my hair colored probably twice a year so that would be a big lifestyle change for myself and my wallet). Out of these two, I am more drawn to the coloring on the right with the blunt cut of the left. hairstyles 2018 female Style Option #2: Brunette, Shorten, Bangs?! There have been two times in my life that I have had bangs, the first when I was four. I had no say in my hairstyle and not a care in the world of how my bangs were looking that day. Then I got bangs again before my freshman year of high school—the first two days were great but then they turned into a morning frustration of how to style them and I thought never again until…we were pinning inspiration photos and I came across the photo on the right, she is just working that hairstyle and making me want to go home right now and cut them myself. I think either of these warmer brunette coloring would work for my skin tone and I’m excited to see what you all think! hairstyles 2018 female Next, let’s bring in one of our junior designers, Velinda. Current Hair Situation: My “current” situation is the same as it’s been for nearly a decade; long, curls that are occasionally colored (by my sister) a bit darker than my natural chestnut brown (but not since last April). It’s very curly and I learned a bit too late in life that letting it air dry with a bit of product is better than blowing and brushing. (Insert childhood frizzy mullet photo here… Mom, if you’re reading, you HAVE curls. WHY did you force the hairbrush? Shame on you!) Currently, I spend 0-5 minutes styling because I usually roll out of bed and luck into a messy look that works…or it’s just a huge fail and I put it up and say “good enough.” Sometimes, I can salvage the morning’s frizzy rat’s nest with Alterna Caviar Dry Oil Mist. If having to get fancy, I’ll tweak my curls with a curling wand, which takes maybe 10-15 minutes. Straightening takes 30 minutes or more, which I’m willing to do, but not until some shape is restored. I get away with long stretches between haircuts because of the texture, so I apologize in advance to the lucky stylist that gets my tangled, dead-ended mess. Overall, I’m bored of the same style for the last several years and I’m open to ideas. But I’m not willing to go short. I tried in my early 20s and now tote a driver’s license that serves as a forever reminder of that time I instantly became an (uncool) 40-something soccer mom. Thing is, most long, curly hairstyles look all-the-same to me! So maybe a new color can help? Biggest Hair Concerns/Notes for the Stylist: I’ve had past encounters with stylists that were inexperienced with such tight curls, resulting in a shorter-than-intended look once my hair dried post-cut and inevitably spiraled up several inches. My hair actually reaches my low back when wet or straightened. I also don’t want short layers that create a top-heavy or mushroomy look. I hope to have the option of straightening/styling for fun variations on this new do, but with the flexibility to be low-maintenance and cute when messy. Speaking of maintenance, I’d like to limit any color or other treatment to something affordable to maintain (i.e. not hideous if it’s growing out) because let’s face it, when I tell my stylist see you in three months, I’m a brazen liar! hairstyles 2018 female Velinda’s Style Considerations hairstyles 2018 female Style Option #1: Leave Length, No bangs, Go Dark. I think this is the sexier look, but not quite as much of a change. I’ve rocked the side part before (and have loved it). Going this dark would be fun and maybe there’s a slightly new shape to try. Less risk, but what’s not to love about locks like these? And maybe the pros can give me some styling tips/tricks for those times I don’t go bed-head messy/rock a top knot. hairstyles 2018 female Style Option #2: Leave Length, Add Bangs, Richer Color. Bangs??? I’m sweating. I’m definitely open to something this different, but is this too ’80s? Is it too “cutesy” or trendy? Will it work for my face? I love the idea of having some wispy pieces hanging loose those times I pull my hair back and I think it’d be super cute straightened. But does it reeeeaaalllyyy work with curls? I had bangs as a kid, but the rest of the haircut was so bad, it’s hard to know if bangs were the culprit. This would be a big risk. Then again, if I hate it, I hear bangs are just super easy to grow out ( EYE ROLL/INSERT NERVOUS FACE). hairstyles 2018 female EHD’s newest team member, Ryann, is ready for a BIG change. Current Hair Situation: This is what we are working with: dark brown (with some natural highlights), mostly straight, pretty unruly, and THICK. I usually wash my hair in the morning, run through it with a brush, spray with Ouai wave spray, and hope for the best. I’ve never really done anything too drastic (never dyed my hair, never had a haircut I truly regretted) but this shoulder-length-haired gal is actually the new me. Up until a few weeks ago my hair was 18 inches longer and had been that way for years. One Friday I was complaining to my wonderful co-workers here at EHD that I was so over my long hair, and by Monday morning I had chopped it all off. And when I say I chopped it all off I mean I chopped it all off. By myself. In my bathroom. With no supervision. So I might be a little bit more daring than most, but honestly I chalk it up to general laziness and restlessness when it comes to my hair. I am definitely not attached to the $0 haircut I gave myself impulsively so of course I volunteered to go a little crazy for the sake of the blog. The bigger change the better. Make me a new woman. Biggest Hair Concerns/Notes for the Stylist: Two things. #1 Check out that frizz. Yikes. I am hoping my mom doesn’t see this post because I will definitely get a text scolding me for not brushing my hair. The thing is, I did. And I do! I swear I do! But clearly I need something more powerful to tame those flyaways. I would love some spiritual guidance on how to achieve the glossy finish that I think we all deserve. #2 I won’t spend more than 5 minutes doing my hair. I love sleep way too much so if a cut requires me to get up earlier in the morning, it’s a no from me. hairstyles 2018 female Ryann’s Style Considerations hairstyles 2018 female Style Option #1: Short Bob, Bangs, Dark Color. This cut feels so classic and good and it’s kind of what I’ve always wanted in a haircut. It seems simple and not as big of a change, but I would go really dark if I went this route which would be fun. I know I am in desperate need of layers and I love a good set of bangs, but I’m also wondering if this style is way too safe? My heart is telling me yes. hairstyles 2018 female Style Option #2: Short Bob, Bangs, Blonde. I’ve been wanting to go blonde for years. I’ve never dyed my hair, so the thought of suddenly being blonde is so exciting. My only worry is I won’t be able to achieve the color I want in one session and that might be disappointing for all of us. I want a transformation and instant gratification, ya know? hairstyles 2018 female Style Option #3: Super Short Bob, Bangs, Darker Color. Ugh. This one. This cut is just dreamy. So chic, so cool, and so wonderfully feminine. I kind of think this style would actually make me a new woman (a woman that lives in the Italian countryside and runs her own winery a.k.a. my dream) but I’d be lying if I said I am not afraid I would look like a boy with a bowl cut. What do you think? Can I pull it off?!? Remember, I am #goingforit. OKAY SO LET US HAVE IT! We’re heading to the salon today (do not miss the hair mania on Instagram today to see all the action) and drastic changes might happen when we all hit the chair. Will Velinda get bangs? Will Sara be an entirely new person who her cats (and BF) won’t recognize? Will I all of a sudden be a brunette with a dramatic Parisian-inspired cut? WHO KNOWS. But we want to hear from everyone what they think… it could sway us (and stay tuned next week for the final reveals…it’s going to be GOOD).

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5 Summer Travel Outfits You Can Replicate for Under $100—Including Bags and Shoes

So many aspects of traveling can be expensive, but what you pack doesn't have to be. It's totally possible to build cute vacation outfits on a budget, and that's where these Amazon options come in handy. We found the best vacation-worthy clothing, shoes, and accessories—all for under $100 per outfit. And as a bonus, the items are easy to mix in with your regular summer wardrobe to wear long after your trip ends. Whether you're spending your summer sightseeing in a city, hitting the beach, checking out local hiking trails, or just enjoying the nightlife, here are five complete summer staple outfits that will work for your travels and beyond. And they can all fit in your carry-on. Summer Travel Outfits Under $100 Tanming 2-Piece Knit Lounge Set, $36 (was $40) Odoly Cork Sandals, $25 (was $30) Sojo Round Polarized Sunglasses, $16 (was $20) Yesno Puff-Sleeve Maxi Dress, $40 Upopby One-Piece Swimsuit, $34 For the Flight One buyer raved that this lounge set was "elegant, comfortable, and breathable" for their 15-hour flight. The knit material helps keep you warm while the short sleeves and split hems allow enough airflow to help prevent you from getting too hot. Plus, it comes in 12 colors and is totally chic enough to wear out and about when you're done flying. Pair the lounge set with these canvas sneakers that come in 35 colors and have cushioned insoles. One happy customer took them on a vacation and said they were "super comfortable" even while walking "a ton." And if you're looking for a new personal item for the flight, this zippered quilted tote will fit neatly under the plane seat but can carry your laptop, water bottle, and tons more in the multiple interior and exterior pockets. Plus, as one reviewer noted in their five-star review, it's lightweight and can slip over your suitcase handle for easy carrying. Tanming 2-Piece Knit Lounge Set Rocket Dog Comfort Plush Foam Sneaker Bagsmart Lightweight Quilted Tote For City Strolling Throw on these linen pants for an elevated casual look while doing city sightseeing. They come in 25 colors in sizes XS to 5XL. Pair them with this comfy T-shirt that has chic lace detailing on the sleeves and comes in 18 colors. And if you're going to be walking around a lot, you'll need a shoe that both looks good and feels good. These adjustable cork sandals come in 11 colors and are designed to mold to your foot to provide custom cushioning and arch support. One happy shopper raved that they were "so comfy and they don’t rub and give you blisters when you walk around." Finish off the look with some polarized sunglasses. These come in 15 colors and have more than 1,500 five-star reviews. LNX Drawstring Linen Pants Automet Short-Sleeve Lace Top Odoly Cork Sandals Sojos Round Polarized Sunglasses For Date Night Dinners This flowy maxi dress comes in 33 colors and patterns—including many floral ones that would look great for a vacation date night and beyond. The dress is sure to pair well with these block heel mules that come in 14 colors. The heels are designed to be super comfortable with a padded insole and a subtle 2.25-inch heel. Shoppers confirm they’re "very easy to walk in." Complete the outfit with this cute straw clutch that can be converted into a crossbody with the included strap. And throw on this stack of 14-karat gold-filled bracelets for a bit of added glam. Yesno Puff-Sleeve Maxi Dress Dream Pairs Strappy Block Heel Sandals Cookooky Straw Handbag Dearmay Gold Bracelets For a Day Hike Workout dresses are trendy for a reason. They make for cute athleisure, but they also perform well for vacation activities. This one comes in 17 colors and is the perfect garment for hiking because you just have to pack one item. One shopper praised its soft, but supportive material, and another added that “it’s comfortable for working out, hiking, kayaking, everyday errands and walking around. It’s gorgeous, doesn’t show sweat, [it’s] airy, and feels comfortable all over.” Grab these slip-on sneakers to go with the dress. They come in 10 colors and are designed to be breathable with a memory foam insole for added comfort. One happy buyer who took them hiking said they were so lightweight that "it almost feels like you're not wearing anything." And you can carry all your hiking essentials in this 4.7-star rated belt bag that's water resistant and has several pockets for safely storing your items. Ewedoos Athletic Dress with Built-in Bra & Shorts Keezmz Slip-On Sneakers Pander Belt Bag For the Beach For a fun beach (or pool) day, check out this highly rated swimsuit with over 2,300 five-star reviews. It comes in 25 colors in sizes 6 to 18 with pretty front ruching. "Very flattering," one buyer said, adding that the suit "held up for five trips to Mexico." When you're done swimming, you can throw on this cute cover up you can wear to a beachside bar or hotel spa. The button-up is designed to be breathable and lightweight for use even on hot days. Complete the look with a roomy woven tote bag and these nonslip rubber flip flops. As one happy customer noted, it's easy to wash any sand off the shoes and they dry quickly, making them ideal for beach days. Upopby One-Piece Swimsuit Ekouaer Swimsuit Cover Up Trifabricy Large Straw Beach Bag Lavau Waterproof Flip Flops

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Travel

The Post-Vacation Slump Is Real—Here’s How to Snap Out of It

After a vacation, whether it’s a quick weekend getaway to the lake or two weeks backpacking across Europe, you’d expect to return home feeling restored and maybe even ready to tackle your to-do list with new energy. But for some, the opposite happens: instead of feeling optimistic about everyday life, your inbox feels overwhelming, your routine feels more exhausting than usual, and you’re already thinking about your next big trip. If this sounds familiar, you’re not alone. The post-vacation blues are real—and surprisingly common. “Reorienting back to reality after a vacation can be challenging,” says Kara Lissy, a psychotherapist who specializes in managing stress and burnout. “Even if you were relaxed and stress-free on your trip, the visual and audio cues of your every-day habits and patterns can subconsciously remind you of how stressed you were before you left.” Tiffany Green, a trauma-informed therapist based in Chicago, notes that this emotional whiplash usually has a deeper psychological root. “Vacation blues can stem from cognitive dissonance,” she says. “You may understand the importance of returning to work and your routine, but at the same time, you might crave the rest, spontaneity, and joy you felt while away. That inner tug-of-war can leave you feeling emotionally stuck.” But here’s the truth: feeling a little down after a vacation doesn’t mean something’s wrong with you, and it doesn’t mean your trip wasn’t restorative or restful enough. The contrast between the pace of vacation and everyday life is jarring, and what matters is how you ease yourself through the transition. Mental health professionals agree that with a few intentional shifts, it is possible to carry some of that post-trip clarity and inspiration into your everyday routine. Here are a few therapist-backed tips and tricks to help you reconnect, recalibrate, and bring a little of that vacation calm back with you, even after your suitcase is already unpacked. 01 of 06 Build in a Buffer Day “One way to ease the transition back to daily life is by building a buffer and taking a day or two at home after your trip to unwind and regroup,” Green says. “This extra time can help reduce stress and make the shift back into your post-vacation life feel less abrupt.” Jumping straight back into work after vacation may be a ticket to burnout. Even just one extra day to unpack, do laundry, or sleep in can soften the shock on your brain and body. 02 of 06 Bring a Piece of Vacation Home With You Both Green and Lissy agree that bringing a piece of your vacation back home can help reintegrate you back into your real life. “I often recommend that my clients bring home a small memento from their trip to help carry the sense of relaxation and inspiration into their daily lives,” Green says. She suggests placing a photo from the trip on your desk as a visual reminder, or carrying around a small souvenir. Lissy even recommends creating small “bite-sized” parts of your vacation at home, like looking up a recipe from a dish you had and cooking the meal in your own kitchen. 03 of 06 Do Something New in Your Own Town Sometimes what we miss is the feeling of exploring something new. “Humans crave novelty, but we don’t always need to take a flight to get it,” Lissy says. She suggests small things like trying a new restaurant, visiting a neighborhood you’ve never explored, or finding a new walking route. Even small changes can help trigger that same exploratory feeling your brain felt on vacation. 04 of 06 Set Small, Actionable Goals for Yourself “It might feel daunting to completely throw yourself into preparing for a workweek,” Lissy says, which is why she recommends setting a few small goals when you get back from vacation rather than diving right into tasks. “Try focusing on one or two attainable goals, like getting to bed at a reasonable time or doing one load of laundry.” 05 of 06 Pay Attention to How You're Really Feeling If the blues don’t lift after a few days, or if you return from vacation just as exhausted as you left, it could be signaling a deeper issue. “If someone comes back still feeling physically and emotionally drained, it may be a sign of burnout or even symptoms of depression,” Green says. That may be your cue to seek extra support and reevaluate your workload or stress management tools. 06 of 06 If Money and Time Permit, Plan Your Next Getaway Whether it’s a big trip or a simple weekend escape, scheduling downtime before you’re burned out helps make self-care a priority instead of an afterthought. Looking forward to your next getaway can actually boost your mood. “Having something to look forward to creates a sense of anticipation, which can increase motivation and improve your outlook,” Green says. And Lissy agrees. “The best time to plan your next vacation is when you are calm, centered, and relaxed—not when you are already at the point of burnout and exhaustion,” she says. So book that next vacation ASAP, even if you’ve just returned from one.

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Gardening

We Asked Hydrangea Specialists for Their Top Care Tips, and They'll Save Even the Droopiest Flowers

Throughout the U.S., hydrangeas are the quintessential summer flower. With their full, round blossoms and stunning array of colors, they’re a perfect addition to a seasonal flower garden, especially if you’re looking to add bushes and shrubs to the mix. So, what does growing hydrangeas require? We checked in with a few gardening pros with a particular aptitude for this beloved shrub to find out some top tips. Meet the Expert Laura Root is a gardening expert and the senior merchant of live plants and hardgoods for Jackson & Perkins. Linda Vater is the plant expert for Southern Living® Plant Collection. Plant in Early Spring or Fall If you’re hoping to add hydrangeas to your yard, gardening pro Laura Root says the best time to plant these beauties is in early spring or fall. “This allows for cooler temperatures and more consistent moisture, which helps the plants establish strong roots before the stress of summer heat or winter cold sets in,” she says. Want more gardening tips? Sign up for our free gardening newsletter for our best growing tips, troubleshooting hacks, and more! Consider Your Location While hydrangeas grow well throughout much of the US, plant pro Linda Vater still suggests checking your USDA zone. “Many popular species, like Hydrangea macrophylla, are hardy in Zones 5–9, representing a broad swath of the United States,” she says, before noting that this is why personal considerations are important, too. “For example, in more northerly regions, spring planting allows optimal time for root development before winter’s chill sets in,” says Vater. “In the [southern U.S.], fall planting is often ideal to allow a long lead time to the region’s intense summer heat.” But no matter where you are, Vater says mid-summer planting should be avoided due to heat stress and water needs of newly planted hydrangeas. Keep Soil Moist and Drained According to Root, hydrangeas require moist, well-draining soil that’s rich in organic matter. “They prefer consistent moisture and soil that stays damp but not soggy,” she says. “Over-watering can cause root rot, while letting the soil dry out stresses the plant.” Be sure to stick to a reliable watering schedule—especially if you’re having a dry season or cultivating newer hydrangea shrubs. “It’s important to water consistently during your hydrangea’s first year to support healthy root establishment,” says Vater. Adjust pH Levels for Desired Colors Along with moisture levels, it’s also important to note your soil’s pH, as this is important for both your hydrangea’s health and the color of its blooms. “In some varieties, acidic soil promotes blue blooms, while alkaline soil encourages pink flowers,” Root says. “Use a soil acidifier for blue blooms or garden lime for pink blooms.” However, don’t adjust your soil’s pH too dramatically, or without testing first. “Making drastic changes without testing can limit nutrient uptake and harm the plant,” she says. Expect Blooms in Late Spring Through Summer If you’re excited to clip your hydrangeas for indoor arrangements, Root says healthy plants are known for their long bloom times. In fact, you should see flowers appear from late spring through summer, depending on the variety you’ve planted. “Once established, and with proper care, gardeners can look forward to months of beautiful blooms during the growing season,” she says. Avoid Clay Soil Along with keeping your soil watered at the correct levels and monitoring the pH, Root says you should also avoid heavy clay soils because they trap too much moisture. However, if you do have this kind of soil, there are things you can do. Root suggests amending with organic matter to improve drainage. Consider Your Space Needs Depending on your space and location of your hydrangea, it’s important to consider the size. Some can grow up to 20 feet, while others are fairly compact. “White Wedding fits well in tight spaces and containers and requires little pruning to maintain its size,” Vater says. But others—such as the Hydrangea macrophylla which is considered the largest variety—can require much more space. Most Recommended Hydrangea Varieties Both Vater and Root shared their top picks for hydrangea varieties. Hydrangea macrophylla (Bigleaf): Root recommends these for their large, colorful blooms that change color with pH. These can also be compact and drought-tolerant, and Vater notes that this variety is reliably hardy throughout much of the U.S. Hydrangea arborescens (Smooth): This one has showy white blooms and is very adaptable. White Wedding Hydrangea: Vater explains these are abundant in flowers and well-suited to small spaces like containers and cut flower gardens. Heart Throb Hydrangea: Its vibrant cherry red color is edged in vibrant green, which Vater says becomes more prominent over time. Dear Dolores Hydrangea: Vater says this is perfect if you want a classic pink hydrangea in your garden.

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