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I Tried On All Your Favorite Trendy Jeans. Here Are My Thoughts…

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We did a call-out for all your favorite trendy jeans, and so many of you suggested the same pairs over and over and over – it was quite compelling, and my team perked up. So while I was out of town, they ordered them in my size (don’t worry – we returned what I didn’t keep) and when I got home, they greeted me with a fun jean try-on. As we know, loose and baggy is still ruling supreme, skinny jeans being an immediate negative style indicator (controversial, I know, and a real bummer), and yet, as an apple-shaped lady, this is so challenging for me. It’s my dumb non-expert opinion that baggy jeans look best with smaller, more fitted tops (cropped or body suit preferred), playing with proportions, etc, but it’s just not what I’m comfortable in (both physically and not how I feel like I look best). For me, I’m not wearing a big boxy blousy top over big boxy baggy jeans, so I’m not having my moment, and that’s ok (I literally don’t take this stuff seriously, it’s just fun! But I’m not alone, it likely won’t be for long, and there are a few silhouettes that are actually working for me (the last one is my favorite). Here you go:

Quince – Bella Stretch

I’ve been skeptical about Quince, very curious how they are disrupting the market by likely duping other brands (who are likely duping the OG designers/makers, so… ) but the price point is crazy low and the quality seems to be very high. The verdict: I really loved how soft these were with the perfect amount of stretch, but not too stretchy that it felt like they’d lose their shape in hours. And for $50, I was like, wait, what? FIFTY DOLLARS?? They felt extremely high quality to me for that price.

I tried on both the 26 and 27 and kept the 26 (size down, I’m typically between a 27-28 depending on the week). The blue wash is really great, and the fit is mid-rise. I only kept three pairs of jeans, and this is one of them (three sounds like a lot, but you’ll see).

Pistola – Lennon High Rise Crop

Pistola has become a favorite brand for me, and I loved these jeans because I felt good in them. They are a slimmer cut but not “skinny” (I don’t think?). They are so comfortable, an easy wear and fit my lifestyle (which is very casual).

I probably wouldn’t tuck a shirt this far since they are higher rise and I’m shorter torsoed, but at this price point (a little over $100), I felt like they were a solid investment.

Mother – Hustler

A LOT of you said this was a favorite of yours (and admittedly looks so good with those shoes). These fit great, with the signature Mother Stretch, and the dark wash is certainly flattering.

With Mother, I always wore them post partum because they were so flattering and stretchy at the waist. “Bit of stretch, excellent quality, normal-sized pockets”. I really liked these and felt good in them (but was unsure that they are too “skinny”???).

La Ligne – Marilyn Mid-Rise Barrel

Admittedly, these are very cool – a lot of you sent this rec to me, and I hadn’t heard of them. They are dual-toned, the front being lighter than the back, and have a cool side seam and great tailoring. If I had a job in a big city that I had to go into an office for and look cool, I would 100% have kept these, but at this price point, I didn’t think I’d wear them enough to justify the cost.

The verdict: These are rad, but too much of an investment for my lifestyle! I didn’t keep them, but if you are looking to invest and want something really cool (that still looks polished), we all agreed these were rad.

AGOLDE – Fran Low Slung

Yeah, I liked these… The color is perfect, the wash is perfect, and the straight leg is still flattering. They are another pair that so many people swore by, but they are $$$. I didn’t keep them (they weren’t a “hell yes” at the time), but now that I’m staring at the photos, I’m really into them!!

Most people said to size down and wear high-waisted – I’m wearing my normal size, and if I had kept would likely have exchanged it for a smaller size. They are rad, but I just don’t love this baggy of a pant on me, and if it’s not a “hell yes” it’s a “no”. My younger team loved these BTW :)

AGOLDE – 90s Straight

I loved the wash on these (medium with some darker areas), but I didn’t know how to style the hem that came in really fast at the end (so I think you are supposed to just let it be awkward and baggy at the bottom?).

I love Agolde – a definite favorite denim brand when I want to splurge (and I love their shorts a ton). I think this is just a style preference, and I’m not loving this on me :) I also want to say fashion is very perplexing right now, and I’m not seeing a lot of people, even when we went to New York, who looked like they had a clear personal style. Just a lot of people “wearing clothes,” mostly athleisure (everywhere) or just baggy jeans and a square neck tank top (and socks). Brian and I talked about it a TON while we were there. I actually felt silly wearing an “outfit”. It’s almost like the tourists wore the outfits, and the locals just look like they put on clothes. I didn’t expect to see a bunch of Carrie Bradshaws everywhere, but we left super uninspired. So I think younger fashion is still leaning away from trying to look good, which I think does track with what we wore in the 90s??

J. Crew Factory – Wide Leg Crop

These were so cute for those who love wider legs, and the length is perfectly cropped. They are solidly tailored (and looked so cute with those shoes). A great light denim, with the right amount of stretch and a great price point.

I think these could totally be office jeans, too – they do have a raw hem, but they are clean otherwise, and the tailoring is great.

Old Navy – Barrel

For $30, I was super impressed with these. I think we have another year with barrel jeans (the good ones, maybe longer). This price point is solid, and these feel really high quality.

If you don’t want to invest too much into this trend, these (or the Madewell ones below) would be a great way in. You just can’t beat the price.

Madewell – Balloon Jeans

Ok, none of you recommended these, but I was recently at Madewell and they said that these are flying off the shelves – their new “balloon” pants. They feel more “barrel-light,” still with that rounded shape and slight tapering, but less exaggerated.

They are too high-waisted for me (and they are fitted at the waist, FYI), but curious what you guys think? Sorry, we didn’t steam them:)

Madewell – Low Slung Baggy

I really wanted to keep these – they are pretty dang cute! But they are so long that I would need to wear them with high heels and I just know that I don’t need them enough to spend the money because I don’t really wear jeans/high heels enough (again, I work from home so the only time I splurge on new clothes that are non-work from home clothes is for fancier shoots).

Definitely size down on these and wear heels or be ok with the Gumby look. I could also try the petite version because the waist, slight drop crotch, color, wash, and hem are all awesome.

Madewell – The Darted Barrel

While I’ve shown you these for months now, these are still my favorite barrel jeans that I think are flattering on those of us who don’t love a massive bottom. I have them in this wash (size 26) when I want to be a big slouchier, and also in the cream in a size 25 (which is fitted and feels cute).

These are a 10/10 for me – comfortable, on trend, but still flattering and just so easy to wear without a crazy high price point.

So I kept the Quince, the Pistola, and the Old Navy – all of these felt like I’d wear them a lot (for my lifestyle) and weren’t too splurgy. But I am eyeing those low-slung Baggy Fran jeans now…Fashion is hard!!! I find that I get so stuck in my comfortable rut, and for the most part, I’m ok with it until I have the occasion or shoot where I want to show that I have a point of view – less about what is “in” and more about representing my personal style. I think moving away from NY and LA (and living in the suburbs … on a mini-farm…) has drained my daily desire to wear anything that isn’t comfortable and casual :) Or maybe that’s just getting older. Turning 46 in a couple weeks, folks …

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