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Marriage, Marathons and Mental Health with Tony Overbay

In today’s episode, I’m sitting down with my friend, Tony Overbay, a licensed marriage and family therapist and utlra marathon runner. We talk about the metaphors we’ve seen in long distance running to marriage. He also talks about setting goals for the new year, using principles of Acceptance and Commitment Therapy. There are so many benefits physical activity can have on our mental and emotional health. Let’s make 2020 our BEST year ever.

Here is a link to Tony’s New Year’s goal setting episode from last year: http://www.tonyoverbay.com/2018/12/27/episode-97-resolutions-that-will-stick-no-really-acceptance-and-commitment-therapy-plus-resolutions-success/

You can find more of Tony over on his website: http://www.tonyoverbay.com/ or on Instagram @tonyoverbay or @virtualcouch.

And here’s a link to Tony’s new book: https://www.amazon.com/Hes-Porn-Addict-Now-What/dp/1950328031/ref=sr_1_1?keywords=tony+overbay&qid=1576794183&sr=8-1

Have a wonderful New Year’s and join us next week (year) for a discussion with Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife about New Year’s Resolutions.

Building Trust Especially after Betrayal With Geoff Steurer

marriage and family counselor, Geoff Steurer, trust building bootcamp

In today’s episode, I sit down with licenced marriage and family counselor, Geoff Steurer to talk about the importance of building a trust in your marriage. Geoff specializes in re building trust after a serious betrayal. If you are the betrayer or the betrayed, there is hope for recovery for you and for the marriage.

If you are interested in joining the 5 Love Language Challenge, you can sign up right here: www.onthebrightersideofmarriage.com/love-language-challenge

Geoff’s Resources:

Trust Building Academy (main website)

12-week Trust Building Bootcamp (enter code: BRIGHTER20 to receive 20% off the course)

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My marriage vlog on YouTube

Illuminate podcast with Geoff Steurer

My weekly relationship column “Your Hardest Question” on Meridian Magazine

Heal your marriage from porn (6-hour audio course) – Geoff Steurer & Kevin Skinner

Love You, Hate the Porn – Mark Chamberlain & Geoff Steurer

Other Resources:

Not Just Friends – Shirley Glass

Moving Beyond Betrayal – Vicki Tidwell Palmer

Love Sense – Sue Johnson

Hold Me Tight – Sue Johnson

I Know You, I Like You and I Have Your Back with Nate Bagley

This week’s episode with Nate Bagley is one of my all-time favorites! He’s an experienced marriage researcher, interviewing some of the greats, such as John and Julie Gottman, Gary Chapman and Sue Johnson.

He teaches us his framework for building a strong foundation of friendship within your marriage, so you are able to have hard conversations and withstand conflict. His pillars of friendship include the framework of I know you, I like you and I have your back.

You will love the simplicity and ease with which he explains these three pillars and the way he uses experiences from his own life to illustrate these concepts beautifully. He talks about an experiment he did with his wife in his first year of marriage to find out her love language and we made a challenge out of it. Whether you have been married for 3 days or 30 years, it’s such a boost to any relationship to know your spouse’s love language.

You can join our 5 Love Languages Challenge at: https://www.onthebrightersideofmarriage.com/love-language-challenge. I promise, it will be so much fun!

You can find out more about Nate and his incredible program here: https://www.talktoyourspouse.com/. I also suggest looking up his podcast: https://www.mormonmarriages.com/podcast or his blog: https://growthmarriage.com/.

Don’t forget the perfect gift for anyone on your list who is married and hard to shop for is the EPIC Marriage Summit All Access Pass. You can get that here: https://www.onthebrightersideofmarriage.com/allaccess. Get a this special low price only through the holidays.

Ep 37 – Body Composition and Weight Loss with Joanne Lee Cornish

Today’s episode is so much fun. I’m chatting with Joanne Lee Cornish, the author of When Calories and Cardio don’t Cut it. We are talking about body composition and what happens to our food when we eat it. Once lypolosis was explained to me, I feel like I can easily shed this extra 10 pounds that is driving me crazy. You can follow my progress as I try the things I have learned from Joanne.

You can find more from Joanne at www.theshrinkshop.com or follow her on Facebook or Instagram @theshrinkshop.

Here is a link to her book that I loved and highly recommend.

https://www.amazon.com/When-Calories-Cardio-Dont-Cut/dp/0692134611/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1550267908&sr=8-1&keywords=when+calories+and+cardio+don%27t+cut+it

Here is a list of important dates to add to your calendar.

  1. Monday, March 11th at [6:30] – Bachelor viewing party. It’s going to be huge, so don’t miss out!
  2. Thursday, April 11th – Saturday, April 13th open from 9am-6pm each day – My very last Holiday House Boutique. It’s going to be epic, so make sure you come and bring your friends. You can get more details by following Holiday House Boutique on Facebook or Instagram.
  3. Friday, April 26th – My first live workshop. It’s going to be life changing, so get your ticket and join us!